Saturday, May 31, 2008

CONFUSED ABOUT CONDOM ?

ARE YOU CONFUSED ABOUT THESE LITTILE THINGS WICH ARE REALLY USEFUL. SO GO GET THE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THEM.........

For many, condoms are the contraception of choice. Not only do these little latex miracles provide protection against pregnancy, they protect against many sexually transmitted diseases as well. Condoms have been used as birth control for hundreds of years. In days of old, the condom was shaped like a cap that fit over the head of the penis and was made of materials such as linen or sheepskin.
Fortunately, their shapes, materials, and effectiveness have drastically improved since the days of sheepskin protection. Today, there are hundreds of styles and types to choose from.

Types of condoms.
You can choose condoms that are rippled, studded, dry, powdered, lubricated, tinted, transparent, treated with spermicide, or various combinations of any these types. In addition, condoms come in different sizes, which may or may not be marked on the package. The best way to find a favorite is to try them out. Some brands are longer, wider, or thicker than others, so you may need to try a few before you find one that is comfortable for you. Condoms usually come with three or twelve per package. They can cost as little as a quarter each and as much as $2.50. The lubricated condoms are more expensive, as are specialty condoms made from animal tissue or polyurethane. Polyurethane or plastic condoms should only be used if you are allergic to latex, as breakage rates may be higher in non-latex condoms. Make sure to read the labels on the more unusual condoms to determine whether they protect against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Also, pay attention to the expiration dates because condoms do lose their effectiveness with age. Condoms are available in drugstores, drug sections of larger stores, and family planning centers. They are also available on the Internet.

How to use a condom
Condoms need to be used properly in order to provide protection against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, and the most important thing to remember is to handle them carefully. They are easily broken and are ineffective when damaged. Condoms should be stored in a cool, dry place, and it's best not to stash them continually in a back pocket, wallet, or glove compartment. Don't wait for the final moments to put it on...Don't wait for the final moments before orgasm to put on a condom. Pre-ejaculate can carry enough sperm to impregnate a woman. Men leak fluids from their penises before and after ejaculation, which can also carry enough germs to cause sexually transmitted infections. A fresh condom should be used each time a man is aroused. It's important that a partner be well lubricated before penetration with a condom. Not only does lubrication increase sensitivity and pleasure, it prevents condom tears. If you need to use lubricants, make sure that they are not oil-based, because oil can deteriorate latex and lead to breakage.

Putting it on
In the heat of the moment, it's essential to use special care and restraint when opening the condom package. Condoms usually are packaged and sealed in aluminum foil or plastic, and the condom can break very easily as you open the package. The condom should be placed over the tip of the erect penis, with extra space left at the tip. The condom is unrolled all the way to the base of the penis. Additional lubrication should be used if the condom is not already lubricated. After orgasm, when the man is pulling out of his partner's vagina, the condom needs to be held in place so that it doesn't come off. For maximal effectiveness, the penis should still be erect when it is removed from the vagina. Only when the penis is completely outside of the vagina should the condom be removed. It is also recommended that the penis be thoroughly washed after the condom comes off to ensure that no wayward sperm or germs make their way to the man's partner.

When bad things happen to good people
Sometimes condoms break. In the event that this happens, it is important to consult a physician about obtaining protection against pregnancy (the morning-after pill) and against sexually transmitted diseases. The good news is that studies indicate that the condom breakage rate in the United States is less than two percent. If condoms are used consistently and correctly, the pregnancy rate should be less than five percent per year. Unfortunately, many couples don't use the condom each and every time and, in these cases, the pregnancy rate will be higher.

Anal sex
It is important to remember that it is possible for either sex partner to become infected with HIV and other infections during anal sex. In general, the person receiving the semen is at greater risk of getting HIV because the lining of the rectum is thin and may allow the virus to enter the body during anal sex. However, a person who inserts his penis into an infected partner also is at risk because HIV can enter through the urethra or through small cuts or open sores on the penis. Having unprotected (without a condom) heterosexual or homosexual anal sex is considered to be very risky behavior. If people choose to have anal sex, they should always use a latex condom. While condoms work well most of the time, they are more likely to break during anal sex than during vaginal sex. A person should use a water-based lubricant in addition to the condom to reduce the chances of breakage.

Protection against sexually transmitted diseases
The best way to protect yourself against contracting an STD while having sex is to properly use a latex condom. No other type of condom provides as much protection. There is not much research data to show how effective plastic and animal-tissue condoms are for protection against sexually transmitted infections. Some viruses, such as hepatitis B and HIV, may be small enough to pass through the pores of animal tissue. Latex condoms have been shown to provide protection against pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, human immunodeficiency virus, vaginitis caused by infections like trichomoniasis, and vaginitis caused by changes in the pH balance of the vagina that can be triggered by semen chancroid. ConclusionThe condom is a good option for preventing pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Although it is the most proven and effective barrier, the condom may not prevent all cases of pregnancy, nor all cases of HIV, and people should be extremely careful even during protected intercourse.
That said, government-sponsored studies have shown that using a condom is 10,000 times safer than not using one in protecting against HIV. My recommendation to a couple using condoms is to use a latex condom in addition to other protection such as a diaphragm, cervical cap, contraceptive cream, foam, jelly, or even the birth control pill. This combination of contraception will provide you and your partner excellent protection from an unwanted pregnancy and/or sexually transmitted disease. Note, however, that spermicides containing nonoxynol-9 have been shown to be ineffective in preventing HIV transmission and may even increase the risk of infection. A recent WHO report advises against the use of condoms with nonoxynol-9, especially for women at high risk of HIV infection. There's only one happiness in life - To love & to be loved.

Friday, May 30, 2008

NEED THERAPY ?


IF YOU ARE HAVING PROBLEMS IN YOUR SEX LIFE YOU MIGHT CONSIDER GETTING PROFESSINAL HELP.

Sex or psychosexual therapy, has been around for decades and has proven success rates. Sex therapista are trained counsellors or medical professionals who have undertaken additional training in the physical and psychological issues dealing with sexual functioning.



Simply put, the problems fit into three basic categories: can't get it up, can't get it in, can't be bothered. In fact, therapists tackle pretty much any sexual problem that isn't sorting itself out. It may be a problem you've had for ages or it might be something that has developed after enjoying a good and healthy sex life previously.



You may know exactly what has caused your particular problem or like many, you may be mystified. Anyone can have a problem with his or her sex life. If you have a partner who won't go for therapy, even a few sessions on your own can be really helpful.



It seems to be harder for some people to ask for help about sexual problems. It's a very personal thing and most of us have been brought up to believe sex should come naturally.



Take a reality check. Sexual problems affect pretty much everyone at some stage in their life. For some, the problem goes away with time but for others, it might linger. So it helps to call in the experts. There are a number of places you can go to for psychosexual therapy. Remeber that sex is meant to be fun. If it isn't fun any more, do think of getting help.



COMMON SEXUAL WOES


  • ERECTION PROBLEMS

  • EJACULATING TOO QUICKLY

  • PAINFUL INTERCOURSE

  • CAN'T GET SEXUALLY EXCITED

  • GONE OFF IT ALTOGETHER

  • SEXUAL ADDICTION


HOW TO CURE RAZOR BURNS

CAUSES OF RAZOR BURNS

  • Excessive use of aftershave and colognes can compound the problem of razor burns by causing dryness.
  • Applying too much pressure while shaving can cause a razor burn owing to friction.
  • Insufficient skin lubrication is another cause.
  • Shaving in the direction opposite to hair growth is also a common cause for razor burns.

RAZOR BURNS HOME REMEDIES

FOR BURNING SENSATION

Dissolve two uncoated aspirins in tea spoon of warm water and mix into a paste. Apply this paste on the affected area. Wash it after sometime with lukewarm water. This will take care of the burning sensation.


FOR RAZOR BURNS

An effective razor burn mask can be made by mashing a couple of strawberrie with a one sppon of sour cream. Applu this mixture after shaving and leave it for 10 minutes. Do this twice a week for fresh, razor burn free skin. Witch hazel, mild salicylic acid solutions and Aloe Vera gel are known to provide relief for razor burns.

CONSUME FOODS RICH IN VITAMIN C

Although there are no specifications regarding diets to be followed for razor burns, consuming foods rich in Vitamin C should help in restoring the skin quickly.

OTHER SUGGESTIONS

  • Use warm water to soften your skin and hair prior to shaving, alternatively shave right after a shower.
  • Be sure to apply shaving cream, foam or soap in the opposite direction of hair growth, taking care to moisturize your skin as well as hair thoroughly.
  • Start by shaving the easier areas first like jaw line, cheeks and neck.
  • Shave in the direction of the hair growth (usually downward)
  • Do not stretch your skin taut while shaving.
  • Rinse your razor thoroighly after every use nd replace blades every week or more often if needed.
  • Electric razors that work gently on your skin prevent razor burns. Use shave oil. Applying pre-shave oil as a first layer, prior to shaving creams and gels helps soften the beard and improve the shave quality.



TEA, COFFEE OR ME

HOW TO ASK HER OUT ?
You feel like you have met the girl fo your dreams. You like everything about her, right from the way her hair falls to the way she walks. Both of you meet often and have loads of things to talk about. You like her company and she seems as interested. in you as you are in her. Now, the most logical step seems to be asking her out on a date. If you want to know the answer of how to ask her out, read on.....

Girls are usually more sensitive than the guys. So, you should approach them for a date in a vry delicate manner.

Girls are less likely to go for a football match or a wrestling competition or parasailing on the first date. So, don't suggest it.

For girls, the first date is generally associated with small and cute things. So, it is better to ask her to go out for movies, plays or dinner.


Wednesday, May 28, 2008

SOMETHING IS MISSING


















WHAT LOVE & MARRIAGE MEANS

ARE YOU A TURN ON FOR YOUR MAN/ WOMAN?
IF NOT, WHAT TURNS A WOMAN ON ? MEN READ ON...

  • Whisper mre - but do not whisper too close to her ear. Be back one inch or so. The combination of light breath on her ear and words of genuine affection can be very poweful. Plus, it capitalises on the notion of privacy.
  • Repeatedly call her by the pet name you have for her. If you don't have one, make one up and get her approval. Pet names demonstrate affection, a healthy dose of possessiveness, and it helps emphasise your identity as a couple. All of these things feed emotional attachments.
  • Hold hands in public and gently squeeze hers every so often. This shows her a little possessiveness and protectiveness. Many women find it arousing when you proudly yet thoughtfully show off your identity as a couple to the rest of society.
  • Tickle her playfully or initiate a tickle fight. This is a great way to introduce fun and laughter in to the bedroom, and it naturally leads to physiological arousal.
  • Get her pulse going ! Go to a scary movie, an amusement park, a funny play or musical. Get her emotions running wild, and you will see that transfer to romaticism and sex drive.
  • Exercise together. Strength training raises testosterone levels in both men and women which increases libido. You will both look better and have more stamina.
  • Give her a hug from the opposite direction. By doing this you are introducing the element of surprise. Nothing deadens the heart like routine, so change it up and be creative.
  • Try not speaking, but give her a penetrating look as though you see into her soul, the essence of who she is and that yoy would not change a thing. Think all that as you look at her. She will feel it as she reads your look. Try to hold that gaze.
  • Do not just express your attraction. Sincerely express to her the emotional attachment and commitment you have to her. Let her know that she is first in your heart and mind. Actually notice how she looks and then follow up by sicerely complimenting what you see, and especially, how she make you feel.

WHAT TURNS A MAN ON? WOMEN READ ON .......
STANDING TALL
A woman stands tall, dresses well, exercises and is confident about her body. If she's proud of her figure no matter what shape or size and has good posture, men take notice.
TRUE GRIT
Men know that women cry and get hurt. Men want to be there to help. But there's somthing insanely attractive about women who can bite their lips, buck up and grit out some of life's twists and pains.
SOFTWARE SAVVY
Women like men who know hardware, and men like women who know software. Show a guy a woman who knows her way around systems, networks, and connections, he will be dazzled by her smarts. There's something sexy about a woman who can click a few buttons.
UNDERSTAND UNDERWEAR
Slinky and small lingerie works for anniversaries, birthday surprises, honeymoons, and other seduce me moments. But the look that makes men feel both comfortable and excited is when she is wearing boxers and a thin as can be T shirt that is neither too tight nor too big. Also wearing his old dress shirt and a pair of panties
SEXY SHAMPOO
Perfume and body lotion are nice but the smell of her freshly washed hair nestled up on a Sunday morning is a reminder of all that's good about relationships.
DIRT AND SWEAT
Men like to see their women dolled up for a night out. But many men appreciate the opposite. The woman who bikes, hikes, mows the lawn, hacks trees and branches.
A FEW 'DUH' MOMENTS
Men like smart women. But there is a part of a man is brain that wants her to have an occasional dollop of dizziness. It makes them feel needed, that he is trusted and that he can be there to help.



SANTA BANTA & OTHER JOKES

Boss: Where were you born?
Sardar: Punjab .
Boss : which part ?
sardar : Kya which part ? Whole body born in punjab.

2 sardar were fixing a bomb in a car.
Sardar 1 : What would you do if the bomb explodes while fixing.
sardar 2 : Dont worry, I have a one more.

Sardar : What is the name of your car ?
Lady : I forgot the name, but is starts with "T".
Sardar : Oye Kamaal ki gaadi hai, Tea se start hoti hai. Hamaara gaadipetrol se start hoti hai.

Sardar was busy removing a wheel from his auto. A man asks sardar whyare you removing a wheel from your auto.
sardar : Cant you read the board. Parking is only for 2 wheeler.

Sardar got into a bus on 1st April when conductor asked for ticket. He gave Rs.10/- and took the ticket and said April fool. I have pass.

Sardar joined new job. 1st day he worked till late evening on the computer.Boss was happy and asked what you did till evening.
Sardar : Keyboard alphabets were not in order, so I made it alright.

On a romantic day sardar's girlfriend asks him. Darling on our engagement day will you give me a ring.
Sardar : Ya sure, from landline or mobile.

How will you destroy a submarine full of sardars ?
Simple. Just knock the door and they will open it....

Santa apni girl friend ko I Luv U kehta hai aur gir jata hai.
Gal: Yeh kya kar rahe ho?
Santa: I'm falling in love.

Museum Administrator: That's a 500-year-old statue u've broken.
Banta: Thanks God! I thought it was a new one.

A man to Santa: Aao ji chess khelein Santa: Tu chal mein sports shoes pehen kar aaya.

At the scene of an accident a man was crying: O God! I have lost my hand, oh!
Santa: Control yourself. Don't cry. See that man. He has lost his head. Is he crying?

Santa was getting bitten by mosquitoes the whole night. He got irritated...drank poison & said,Ab kaato saalon, sab maroge!

Banta: U cheated me.
Shopkeeper: No, I sold a good radio to u.
Banta: Radio label shows Made in Japan but radio says This is all India Radio!

NOW THE LAST TWO ULTIMATE :

In an interview,Interviewer: How does an electric motor run?
Santa: Dhhuuuurrrrrrrrrr. .....
Inteviewer shouts: Stop it.Santa: Dhhuurrrr dhup dhup dhup...

Tourist: Whose skeleton is that?
Santa: Tipu's skeleton.
Tourist: Whose that smaller skeleton next to it?
Santa: That was Tipu's skeleton when he was child

I HAVE REALISED THAT